The Real Enemy

Oh-oh, yes I'm the great pretender
Pretending that I'm doing well
My need is such I pretend too much
I'm lonely but no one can tell

Too real is this feeling of make-believe
Too real when I feel what my heart can't conceal

— The Platters

I love Ryan Holiday. But I think he was wrong. The ego is not the enemy. On the contrary, it’s your friend. I get that “ego i…